(My first blog ever, be nice!)
So this weekend, my current favorite person to aggravate is on vacation out of state(VA I think it is). This left me to find other entertainment, so off I went to Craigslist. As odd as it sounds, I’ve met some really nice people on there (including my mentioned favorite victim to pester) and figured a new acquaintance wouldn’t hurt. After talking to a gentleman through email and phone conversation, we agreed to meet up. It wasn’t anything expensive, just coffee at a Barnes and Noble. Things were going great, we both looked like our pictures, there was decent conversation, he “tolerates” cats, all that good stuff. His coffee was getting down to the bottom and I had already finished my smoothie when he asks me “So, your car or mine”? I tilted my head and gave him a confused look,”your car or mine for what”? I have been out of the dating scene for months, I had no idea what he was asking. “Your car or mine for sucking me off or f***ing, your choice” was the answer. Now at this point my eyes were about to bulge out of my head. I asked him if he was kidding but the look on his face told me he was completely serious. “I prefer you sucking me first and if you’re good then we can f**k”. I giggled and said that was a silly joke, playfully adding that I’m not a hooker while mentally making sure it wasn’t April 1st, nope it’s June 4th no jokes today. I glanced at the clock on the wall and made the excuse that I didn’t realize how late it was and that I really needed to go. He walked me out to my car and said “you know, if you suck me good enough I come quickly, so you wouldn’t be late.” I told him that was good to know but that I really had to be on my way. After a quick hug and a dodged kiss I was in my car with the door closed and locked. I had been out of the dating loop since November (worked/working on self improvement, more on that later), but I never dreamed things changed so much since then.
Are there new dating rules? Is this normal for first dates/meetings now? Is sexual activity expected during first dates now? I guess one could argue if he paid for my stuff he could expect it, but in this case he didn’t, I covered my smoothie. When did a hug and a kiss on the cheek go out of style for the first date? What do you expect on a first date?